. The Tightrope .
To quote Timothy Keller “To be loved but not known is
comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But
to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It
is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us
out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can
throw at us.” In society there has always been a fight against the norm and
those who seek to live in a place that is beyond the status quo. The few are
often persecuted by and hated for having the audacity to believe beyond the
things that they are supposed to be allowed to do, think, feel, and be. As
Keller points out we all crave love but the way that we go about achieving
these things is what helps to define our character and our society. When people
fight the system they have equally chosen dexterity and isolation. This choice
is one that is necessary to the worlds progression. As we look back at history
we see that people who have allowed themselves to look beyond the most basic
commonly heals beliefs we also see the innovators and the pioneers who made our
lives possible. People who dared to ask if we could be, do, and feel more than
the people of our time believed was real or possible.
With this level of dedication to evolution beyond the
things that we collectively believe comes a sort of hope and aspiration to help others to reach
the highs that they are capable of even though they may meet your evolutionary
thought and individuality with scorn and hatred that has been birthed in fear.
To know your audience is to win them in the sense that an individual that possesses
elevated thought is also one that can meet those in their lives with a unique
brand of affection and reliability that allows those who have long feared
their own existence to live into who they were meant to be. If we look at the
best orators and activists though they felt and thought in a way that was
vastly different from the norm they were capable of understanding the position
of the vast majority and consequently relating their call to the masses to the
masses. For example, Martin Luther King had a great love for the people that he
knew and those he hoped would someday live beyond the struggle of their
fathers. King’s relation to his audience allowed him to fast track the civil rights
movement.
Never be afraid to live outside of the bubble.
Sometimes the norm just is not working and will never be good enough for and
extraordinary individual who could be so much more than they are in the moment.